Why She Does the Things She Does

Lush by Natasha Friend, I would normally criticize the choices she made, and how she would deal with things the way she did, but soon I found myself with a question. Why does Sam do the things she does, even if they aren’t the best ones? Then I noticed that, that was one of the best aspects of the book, how relatable Sam is because she doesn’t do things perfectly.

When Sam’s parents start driving her insane she looks for help by leaving a note in the library for a girl named Juliet, describing her situation and asking for advice. I wondered why she chose to do this instead of talking to her friends or an adult and then I could understand her and relate. She describes in the book how when she is with her friends she “mostly forgets”, and how it’s better for her not to think about it. I know what it is like to need distractions from what you have to deal with. I always love to be around my friends because when I am with them it is like I am in a different world.

It is really interesting to me because the way she deals with her problems frustrate me, but at the same time I can’t exactly blame her. I wish she would just be honest with her dad, mom, and friends. I think that was what was really important about the notes. She was totally honest with A.J.K. but had no idea who he was. Then in the end she was able to be herself with everyone. It took her a while to get to that point because of the other choices she made, but she still got there.

I think what makes Sam a memorable character is how realistically she deals with her problems. Maybe the way she does it isn’t exactly the best way, but at the time it is what she thinks is best for her. I can also relate to her on this level because I deal with my problems in the same way. I don’t talk to people about it, and Sam inspires me to talk more and express my thoughts.